Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Thoughts From the Second Day with Isaac


Isaac Day 2               

Two nights with Isaac and so far so good.  We moved into a new room, actually a suite of rooms with 3 living areas, 3 beds, two couches, a dinning table, 2 bathrooms, a kitchen and a washing machine.  No dryer for the washing machine, but that seems about right for China.  Last night I mostly slept and I feel like a new woman.

The computer system for our province is back up and running and we are heading to Isaac’s town today.  We will not be seeing the orphanage.  We don’t want Isaac to be back in SWI for several reasons and I think, based on his size and general health and the testimony of others, I can draw some educated conclusions.  There are just too many things in life we see that we wish we hadn’t and I don’t care to add this to my list.

Isaac seems to be content with his new life.  He calls me momma and Veldon “d dd” or something like that. Momma was easy because it’s very close to the Chinese word for mother, but daddy isn’t.  He’s trying though.  He wasn’t sure about Max to begin with, but he likes him now and tries to play with him and interact.

Max is struggling, as expected.  He is working hard to figure out his place.  He feels threatened and dethroned and we are working to be patient with him.  He tries to imitate everything Isaac does that we all coo over, it’s cute when a 4 yr old the size of a 1 yr old does something, it’s kind of awkward when a 7 yr old, the size of a 7 yr old tries to do the same thing.  But we expected this and more, and we are prepared to walk the road with him. I still believe this is the best thing in the world for Max, and obviously there’s no doubt this is right for Isaac.




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